Helpful Resources and FAQ
I have tried to list here some websites, You Tube Videos, Organisations, books or TED talks that you may find helpful. I update this regularly so come back and have a look again or let me know by e mail if there is something you would like to know about.
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
If you want to know a bit more about EMDR visit EMDR Association UK and Ireland or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing International Associationfor further information
You Tube - This You Tube clip is helpful, if a bit long. Francine Shapiro created EMDR and is interviewed about it.
Two You Tube clips showing Resourcing that is part of EMDR
Resource Tapping 1 Resource Tapping 2
I have found the following Mindfulness Book really helpful...
Mindfulness - a practical guide to finding peace in a frantic world. It includes a CD of Mindfulness practices.
I found this website is also helpful and has lots of free mindfulness practice downloads on Free Mindfulness Practices Downloads
There is much written about trauma, traumatic responses, post traumatic stress disorder and what is considered a traumatic event or response to a traumatic incident.
I find David Baldwin's Trauma Pages helpful, although perhaps more aimed at the clinician than the client
Many people who have had difficult life incidents or traumatic incidents experience a great deal of shame in the present, even though the incidents happened in the past. I am trained in Sensorimotor Psychotherapy as mentioned in this clip about Combating Shame Through the Body with Dr. Janina Fisher. It shows how shame is carried in the body and can be resolved.
If you are struggling with shame you may find this TED Talk Listening to Shame - Brene Brown helpful as well.
As a lot of relationship issues can be solved by improving communication I find this helpful
How to improve communication
Improving Communication Skills to Resolve Conflict
There are many websites that have self help ideas. If you find one here that particularly interest you but want some help to work through the information you have found I will do this with you in sessions.
Get.gg Self Help and Therapists Resources
Many people think that stress is due to events in their lives and they cannot do anything about how they are affecting them. Many people I have helped learn how if they learn about how stress affects their body and mind they can change this with a few simple techniques.
Watch this You Tube clip about The Stress Response - Fight or Flight
Coping with the Impact of Childhood Sexual Abuse
As we learn from the media almost everyday many adults are living with and coping with the impact of Childhood Sexual Abuse. If you are were abused as a child and now an adult you may find these books helpful if you are thinking about seeking some counselling to help you.
Breaking Free - Help for Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse and the Workbook both by Carolyn Ainscough and Kay Toon.
The NAPAC (National Association for People Abused in Childhood) has an informative website and resources
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